Why

I wonder how many times it takes to have trust broken forever. How many times is a person able to believe again and again and again ...and suddenly it's finished. No more! There is lots of stories of people returning to their partners who just used their love but never really loved them. Why people say"I love you" but do not even try to find out what it means? Why people take love as an easy word we can say to make someone feel good, maybe get someone...but just for a short time. Why it became so cheap and so easy? Why being loyal turned into a joke? Why something so special so warm and secure is considered to be old fashioned? But something easy to get and without the real value became admired? How much more we treasure stuff we had to work hard to get than just quick made one which breaks after the second use. Why don't we treasure love like that? why don't we work hard to keep it, to grow it, to look after it, to respect it and protect it?